The Gender Box

Mandakhbayar Selenge
May 30th, 2010
EAP098
The Basic Relationship
Everyone, who is women and men, have their own position on date and personal. Why people date with opposite gender? When they start to like each others, they begin to date. There are several ways of human relationships which are business relationship, friendship and any other relationships. The one of the first basic relationship is date. First date should be necessary of each person who is women and men. There are three things on date and before date which are men’s position; exciting feeling before date and men has to be a lead.
First, Respect will show that person’s attitude. So each person has to respect each other that mean is starting from their dress up to behaves. I personally thought that if I would be kind and nice to a woman, she would eventually fall for me. If I would spend time with her, she would fall for me. If I showed her I was one of the good guys, a man that would treat her with respect, she would fall for me. Also men have to be a lead when they are dating. Also men or women invite each other to date. I think inviting women to date is unwritten rule for men.
Second of all, before the date, everyone excited their date because first date should be necessary, and they prepare them self as good as possible. Also emotion might be higher than other days. Here is an example; my friend, who was dating with a girl first time, was very exciting and he prepared his self almost a week. Before he left to his date, he was asking me about how he is looking. That is why the date is essential and exciting meeting for everyone. The date is one of the choices of person to close to each other.
Third, on the date, date asker, who is men, has to be a lead. If person who is going to ask date from women, men should bring flowers to her or something special that is more romantic. The men have to be polite person. Such as, they have to pay bills, open doors, be nice and keep her satisfied that is big respect for women. However, women asked you about date; also men have to do those things superlatively. That means men have many responsibilities, and they should be lead on everything and family.
In conclusion, the date is most necessary thing for new couples. It is the good way to know each other. So in my opinion, date is a first step for every couple. It can take long time or short time that depends on people. There are not bad thing on date and also unexciting.